HOWL with Amy

Q: Every time our doorbell rings my dog Buddy rushes the front door like a maniac! Barking uncontrollably, jumping and scratching at the door. In order to open the front door without him jumping all over our guests, I have to grab Buddy by the collar, open the door, and greet our visitors hunched over. It can take up to 10 minutes before he reaches some state of calm. I am beginning to realize I cannot live this way. This is crazy… help!!

Buddy is two and a half years old, a Bernedoodle, and weighs 45 lbs. He had a few lessons when we first got him and that is it for training. He is house broken and very lovable.

A: Thank you for reaching out. It is one of the last sentences of your letter that gives me hope that this will change… “I AM BEGINNING TO REALIZE I CANNOT LIVE THIS WAY.” Until we acknowledge our role in our dog’s behavior by allowing it to continue, it will not change (barring his losing his hearing in old age, when he can neither hear the doorbell or run and jump). 

When we add a dog to our family it’s like adding a child. It is our job to teach them what we want. Whether it is behavioral or obedience focused, we must invest the time to show them. I always tell my clients you have two choices when you get a dog: you can either change how you live in your home to accommodate to their behavior; OR, YOU can invest time and TEACH them how you want them to live in your home. It’s really that simple. Remember, offering no message is itself sending a message. If you don’t respond in a constructive and appropriate way that clearly tells your dog you do not like their behavior, you are telling them it is okay. 

Given the fact that Buddy has not had much obedience and behavior training to tap into when exhibiting his front door behavior, for now I’d recommend having him on a leash whenever company is expected. Have an extra leash by the door in case a delivery truck arrives unannounced. Given his size and breed, I’d probably recommend a corrective collar so you don’t get pulled to the ground.

Meanwhile, Buddy is young and will be with you for many years to come. Getting some professional help might be a good consideration so you can learn how to teach Buddy in the most effective way. Before hiring someone, make a list of ALL the behaviors you want to change so you create the most harmonious relationship. You will need to incorporate obedience work as well, so your daily homework includes lots of repetitive positive work with Buddy, verses a lot of correction-driven exercises. This Balance in training is VERY IMPORTANT!

Be sure to find someone you feel comfortable with, who is consistent, sets high bars, and is loving all at the same time. Consistency, clarity, and warmth are integral to a dog’s ability to understand your message and learn. They love to learn and the experience of training your dog is the most incredibly bonding thing you can do for your relationship with them. Dogs are so very smart… raise your bar!!  

Amy Peer